Motherhood: What I learned about myself in the first year (#1)

Dear Readers, The next series of my blog will focus on "lessons learned" as we close in on year one. With nostalgia and introspection often comes learning and growth.

Over these next few blogs, I'll share my most important learning moments. Truthful and personal, as I have always promised my readers. My intention is they will help other women, even in a small way. Maybe they're just starting this journey like I was last year. Maybe they've been through this a few times but still have shaky and vulnerable moments. Even though this journey is incredibly personal, I've found that new mothers lean on each other. They often share similar experiences and just want to know they are not alone with their feelings. Remember, the village?

If I had an honest conversation with my pregnant self, what would I say about the first year of motherhood? #1: You will struggle during the first six months of motherhood and feel like you've lost yourself. (I promise you - you haven't). It will be a hard time in your life and at times you will feel resentful. Despite having an "easy" baby that enriches your life, sadness will sometimes cloud your joy. You will be confused by this. And that's okay. This time will be full of highs, lows and at times be incredibly isolating. You will not battle postpartum depression, but the change in identity piece will hit you hard. After six months, you'll feel more settled at home and at work, at peace with your new identity and really start to enjoy motherhood.