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Honest thoughts from a WFH SAHM
Dear Readers, Hello! It's been a minute since you've heard from me. I'm glad to be back on here sharing my life with all of you. 2024...

melmatulonis
May 26, 20243 min read


Fight-or-Flight
"Fight-or-Flight, an acute stress response, is the physiological reaction when your body is faced with something mentally or physically...

melmatulonis
Jan 22, 20242 min read


2024 is on the horizon and the fog has lifted
Dear Readers, Here we are, just eight hours away from the ball dropping for 2024. This is my 51st blog (you knew I wouldn't stop at 50)....

melmatulonis
Dec 31, 20232 min read


What's next?
Dear Readers, When I started It Takes a Village back in April, my goal was simply to create a forum for expression that would help me...

melmatulonis
Nov 12, 20232 min read


Motherhood: What I learned about myself in the first year (#5)
Dear Readers, This series of my blog will focus on "lessons learned" as we close in on year one. With nostalgia and introspection often...

melmatulonis
Nov 8, 20232 min read


Motherhood: What I learned about myself in the first year (#4)
Dear Readers, This series of my blog will focus on "lessons learned" as we close in on year one. With nostalgia and introspection often...

melmatulonis
Nov 5, 20232 min read


Motherhood: What I learned about myself in the first year (#3)
Dear Readers, This series of my blog will focus on "lessons learned" as we close in on year one. With nostalgia and introspection often...

melmatulonis
Oct 28, 20232 min read


Motherhood: What I learned about myself in the first year (#2)
Dear Readers, This series of my blog will focus on "lessons learned" as we close in on year one. With nostalgia and introspection often...

melmatulonis
Oct 22, 20232 min read


Motherhood: What I learned about myself in the first year (#1)
Dear Readers, The next series of my blog will focus on "lessons learned" as we close in on year one. With nostalgia and introspection...

melmatulonis
Oct 21, 20231 min read


Our North Star
Dear Readers, As one might imagine, I have been feeling more nostalgic and reflective as Evie's first birthday is around the corner. In...

melmatulonis
Oct 15, 20232 min read


This is the time to remember
Dear Readers, You know those times when you can't get a certain song out of your head? It keeps playing repeatedly in your mind and the...

melmatulonis
Oct 8, 20232 min read


What October means to me as a new mother
Dear Readers, Out of the twelve months, October bears the most symbolic similarity to my experience as a new mother. This felt like a...

melmatulonis
Oct 1, 20232 min read


Ordinary and beautiful moments with my daughter
Dear Readers, “At the end of the day, people won't remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.” Today's...

melmatulonis
Sep 24, 20232 min read


The wonder of a child
Dear Readers, Since becoming a mother I've become more... a lot of things, but open-minded and inquisitive come to the top of the list. ...

melmatulonis
Sep 17, 20231 min read


The importance of connection
Dear Readers, "Man by nature is a social creature." Aristotle One piece of advice I would offer a new parent, specifically a mother, is...

melmatulonis
Sep 10, 20232 min read


Roots and wings: a message for parents
Dear Readers, This week's thoughts center around what will be - not what is. We flipped the calendar to September so that means social...

melmatulonis
Sep 3, 20232 min read


Equal but different babies
Dear Readers, A mother-of-five children told me today when you meet a nine-month-old, you've met that nine-month-old. As someone who is...

melmatulonis
Aug 27, 20232 min read


Victories on and off the course
Dear Readers, Today's theme centers around victory, winning and how it relates to parenthood. To add more specifics, my husband Nick won...

melmatulonis
Aug 20, 20232 min read


Phases, seasons and temporary positions
Dear Readers, This week's blog centers around the number "9." Evangeline turned nine months old this week, which means I have also been...

melmatulonis
Aug 13, 20232 min read


The songs that tell my story
Dear Readers, I've published 33 blogs in It Takes a Village and almost all of them follow the same format of 2–3-minute non-fiction...

melmatulonis
Aug 5, 20234 min read

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